洪 民憙 (Hong Minhee)

오히려 트위터도 블스도 영원하지 않지만 연합우주만이 가장 영원할 가능성이 높음 ㅋㅋ

私は幼い頃から、典型的な男性性とは距離が有りました。私の名前である「民憙（ミンヒ）」も、韓国語ではかなり女性的な語感を持つ名前なので、自ら男性としてのアイデンティティを感じることがさらに難しかったのかもしれません。

長い間、社会は私を男性として見なし、私も特にその範疇に抵抗することはありませんでした。ただそういうものだと思って生きてきました。

しかし時間が経つにつれて、次第に気づくようになりました。私は単に社会が男性に要求するものを欠如しているのではなく、いわゆる「男性的価値」と呼ばれるものを、そもそも追求していないということを。時には積極的に拒否することさえあります。

そして幸運にも、配偶者の俐思（リサ）（@tokolovesme）と出会い、お互いに深く率直な対話を交わすうちに、長い間感じていながら言語化できなかったことを、ついに表現できるようになりました。私は典型的なシスジェンダーの異性愛者男性とは、根本的に違うということを。

私はノンバイナリーであり、バイセクシュアルです。

長らく自分を男性として紹介してきたせいで、ノンバイナリーと自称することがまだ少し恥ずかしく、不慣れでもありますが、それでも親しい人々には少しずつこの真実を打ち明けようとしています。

저는 어릴 때부터 典型的(전형적)인 男性性(남성성)과는 距離(거리)가 멀었습니다. 제 이름인 「民憙(민희)」도 꽤 女性的(여성적)인 語感(어감)의 이름이라, 스스로 男性(남성)으로서의 正體性(정체성)을 느끼기 더욱 어려웠던 것 같기도 합니다.

오랫동안 社會(사회)는 저를 男性(남성)으로 여겼고, 저도 딱히 그 範疇(범주)에 抵抗(저항)하지 않았던 것 같습니다. 그냥 그러려니 하고 살았죠.

하지만 時間(시간)이 지나면서 漸次(점차) 느끼게 되었습니다. 저는 그저 社會(사회)가 男性(남성)에게 要求(요구)하는 것들을 缺如(결여)한 게 아니라, 所謂(소위) 「男性的(남성적) 價値(가치)」라고 부르는 것들을 아예 追求(추구)하지 않는다는 것을요. 甚至於(심지어) 때로는 積極的(적극적)으로 拒否(거부)하기까지 합니다.

그리고 運(운) 좋게도 配偶者(배우자)인 俐思(리사)(@tokolovesme)를 만나 서로 깊고 率直(솔직)한 對話(대화)를 나누면서, 오랫동안 느껴왔지만 言語化(언어화)하지 못했던 것을 마침내 表現(표현)할 수 있게 되었습니다. 저는 典型的(전형적)인 시스젠더 異性愛者(이성애자) 男性(남성)과는 根本的(근본적)으로 다르다는 것을.

저는 논바이너리이자 兩性愛者(양성애자)입니다.

오랫동안 스스로 男性(남성)이라고 紹介(소개)해 온 탓에 논바이너리라고 自稱(자칭)하는 것이 아직 조금 쑥쓰럽기도 하고 生疏(생소)하지만, 그래도 가까운 사람들에게는 조금씩 이 眞實(진실)을 털어놓으려고 합니다.

Growing up, I never quite fit into the typical mold of masculinity. My name, Minhee, doesn't help either—it carries a fairly feminine connotation in Korean, which only made it harder to feel any strong sense of male identity.

For the longest time, society categorized me as male, and I didn't really push back against that label. I just went along with it.

But over time, I've realized something important: I don't just lack the traits society expects from men—I have zero interest in pursuing what people call “masculine values.” Sometimes I find myself actively rejecting them.

Things really clicked after I met my spouse, Lisa (@tokolovesme). Through our deep, honest conversations, I finally found words for something I'd felt all along: I'm fundamentally different from a typical cisgender, heterosexual man.

I have come to identify as non-binary and bisexual.

After introducing myself as a man for my entire life, claiming this identity—actually saying “I am non-binary”—still feels new and awkward. But I'm starting to share this truth with the people close to me, one conversation at a time.

@elena Wow, that's incredibly kind of you to offer! 😭 I'm really touched. To be honest, there's no direct flight from Seoul to Brussels—it's 15+ hours with layovers, which is as daunting as the cost. But your kindness really warms my heart. Maybe one day when I can handle the long journey better!

@nelfan Oh wow, I didn't know about the Matrix archives! Thanks for sharing this. The live talk idea sounds interesting too. Though nothing beats being there in person, it's great to know there are ways to participate remotely. I'll definitely check out the archives!

I'd love to go to @fosdem 2026, but Brussels is just too far from Seoul… and the plane tickets are so expensive. 😭

나는 【聲帶模寫(성대모사)】라는 말이 정말 웃긴 韓國語(한국어)라고 생각함…

@yamanoku 来年は必ず参加したいですね！ありがとうございます！

同行者の方々と話し合った結果、東京の代わりに福岡へ行くことにしました。

@kodingwarrior 어라, 就業(취업)하신 건가요? 祝賀(축하)드립니다!

손가락 논란이 복수의 남초 커뮤니티에서 확대되는 상황에 접어들면 기업 혹은 창작자들은 대응 방식을 선택해야 한다. 무대응은 논란을 키울 가능성이 높으며, 사과문과 반박 해명을 오갔던 스튜디오뿌리의 사례에서처럼 대응방식에 일관성이 부족할 경우에도 남성 소비자들은 보이콧운동에 돌입하고는 한다. 커뮤니티의 남성들이 대체로 만족하는 대응책은 기업이 해당 작업자를 빠르게 징계하고 '남성혐오 사상, 즉 페미니즘을 거부한다'는 메시지가 선명하게 드러나 는 사과문을 발표하는 것이다. 여성 단체나 진보적 활동 단체, 혹은 언론의 개입은 유감스럽게도 논란의 해소에 별다른 도움이 되지 못한다.
-한국성폭력상담소 기획, 권김현영·김효정·유호정·이리예·이우창·이한·추지현·황유나『폭주하는 남성성』중에서

The @upyo/smtp package finally supports STARTTLS!

@tirr 헛… 쭉 Android만 써 오지 않으셨어요?

Why do I sometimes get the feeling that the entire world is "based in the United States of America"...

Though I must say, Tk feels pretty antiquated in 2025.

I'm working my way through the Web Browser Engineering book (by Pavel Panchekha & Chris Harrelson), but I'm using asyncio for my implementation instead of the book's examples.

I hit a roadblock in Chapter 2, which introduces tkinter. How do you make tkinter's event loop and asyncio's event loop play nicely together?

A bit of research led me to this fantastic library, async-tkinter-loop, which seems to solve this exact problem. Sharing in case anyone else is on a similar journey!

P.S. If you're curious, the repository I'm working on is here: https://codeberg.org/hongminhee/hongju.

The popular myth that "the meat protein is the best and the plant protein is the worst" is barring many Koreans from trying less-meat diet, they believe that a good meal must include meat for their health. Pretty the opposite in 2025 when people have enough nutrition, we are not in the Korean War era anymore.

I am working on a small #css framework (more soon), and I am very proud of how the tables look :D

'무논리' 중국인 혐오, 교육부터 바꾸자 - 토끼풀 www.tokipul.net/munonri-jung...

'무논리' 중국인 혐오, 교육부터 바꾸자

@eatch.dev 코로그 100%는 좀 힘들 것 같긴 하네요… ㅋㅋㅋ

@eatch.dev 〈야숨〉은 플레이 해 보셨나요…? 그럼 〈왕눈〉도 재밌게 하실 것 같은데…

@mad_panda そうなんですね…残念です。😭

韓国のFedifyの貢献者の方々と一緒に、11月か12月に東京へ行くことになりそうです。日本のソフトウェアエンジニアの方々と交流したいのですが、参加できそうなイベントやおすすめの場所は有りますか？

考えてみると、Zedで韓国語や日本語を入力したことがなかった気がする。だから満足して使えたのかも。

https://i.amase.cc/notes/aekr5gw7e4ph01nc

日本語入力と言うかIME周りの相性が悪い？

Zed、日本語入力周り以外は不満なくていい感じ

Zed試してみるか

After being a dedicated Vim/Neovim user for over 20 years, I somewhat reluctantly switched to VS Code about five years ago when I started coding in TypeScript, mainly pulled in by its ecosystem. However, I've recently started using #Zed, and I'm incredibly satisfied. One of the biggest reasons I always loved Vim/Neovim was its lightweight and fast performance. Zed feels like it captures the best of both worlds: it's modern and feature-rich like VS Code, yet remains as light and responsive as Vim.